Some events that have been passed to me of interest this month:
Steamcon II: Weird Weird West, Nov. 19-21, Seattle, Washington (state).
Rumor has it they got another hotel, but the programming will still be in the same one as last year. Steelhead Ning has a sign up thread for those going.
http://www.steamcon.org/
Upstate Steampunk Extravaganza and Meet-up, Nov. 20, Greenville, South Carolina.
A mini-con brought to you in part by our own Dr. Dayafter (rumor mill says he will be there).
http://www.upstatesteampunk.com
Dorian’s Parlor, Nov. 27, Philadelphia, Pennsylvannia.
These are monthly evening events catering to the metro corridor scene culture. These people know how to dress.
http://www.doriansparlor.com/
About a month ago someone told me of Dickens on the Strand in Galveston, Texas coming up December 5th as well.